Kinky

Kinky is a matter of preference.
Just be careful.
You might think that wearing tights beneath stockings is sexy and kinky, whereas the man does not.
Feel free to explain your predilections but remember that your kinks may not be his kinks.
One tip is to go through the appearance of discovering your tastes together.
This gives the impression of objectivity; you are not explicitly invested and can gauge his reactions.