Self-doubt, self-consciousness and fear can erode your confidence quite easily.
Don’t bother with these things.
Life is too short to get screwed-up, anxious or depressed.
Learn how to play in earnest; the more invested you are in the game, the less you will experience negative thoughts.
Just play and play hard.
Dressing in a feminine, attractive way is not an invitation for sex.
You dress this way for yourself.
Not because it appeals to men but because you chose to.
Being attractive is a pleasure.
It is not necessarily an invitation.