How much has been written about sex and sexuality?
Despite millennia of literature the average person commits very little time to the art of sex.
50 Shades of Grey/mommy porn is not risqué; it is dated and clichéd – a modern re-hash of the Story of O?
Learn about sex; explore your own sexuality, research, find out for yourself.
The more varied, intricate, diverse and exciting your repertoire, the more skilled you become and the further you can take your lover.
Reading fiction, watching movies or talking is not a sexual skill.
Skill is the ability to do and do it well.
Sexuality can be demonstrated in a wide variety of ways.
Try to avoid the vulgar options.
Showing cleavage, stocking tops or being too obvious about your intentions all serve to make you showy, obvious and desperate.
Exhibitionism means that you are playing to the male ego.
Sultry behaviour and dress is more subtle; understated and reserved,
Instead of parading your flesh, keep it covered.
Rather than try to seduce, be aloof and patient.
They will come to you.