Seduction is not about clothing. It is about the use of eyes, humour, poise, attire and femininity to express sexuality and allure. It's not what you wear… It's how you wear it and what you do. Character, style, elegance, wit and charm.
Its OK to be shy.
Shy does not make you timid.
It makes you polite.
Be conservative in manner until you are more acquainted with the person.
Think about what you are going to say before you say it.
Confidence comes from experience and success.