Patience

Patience is underrated in modern culture.
People want immediate results, instant gratification.
Seduction involves restraint, resolve, holding back, waiting.
Rush, act carelessly, become impatient and you ruin everything.
A lady does not hurry.

Dance

If you lack grace and coordination, why not learn how to dance?
A woman who can tango knows exactly how to seduce a man.
Look at the tango ladies.
Observe their make-up, hair, poise, attitude, attire and shoes.
Now, that is sexy.