Game

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Seduction is a game of strategy and skill.
More akin to chess than to gambling.
You move your pieces very cautiously; showing patience and considerable restraint.
Watch your opponent carefully and respond accordingly.

Sexy

Wearing certain clothes does not make you sexy.
The mind, the imagination, the spirit, the way in which you emote, move, speak and flirt – these make you sexy.
The twinkle in the eye, the humour.

Experience

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It is not necessary to have any knowledge or experience of seduction yourself.
Thousands of women have already laid the groundwork for you.
All you need to do is learn from their experience.
Set aside opinions, expectations and assumptions.
Watch some old films, look at old fashion photographs, then scan lingerie catalogues, shoes stores, dress makers and hosiery sellers.
Cultivate an eye for seduction.