Negativity

Modern women are often divorced and a little jaded by men.
They are perhaps wary of relationships.
This is understandable.
But negativity is dangerous and can potentially pollute future success.
Focus on what you want out of a relationship and be quite demanding.
Set high expectations.

Challenge

Obstacles, hardship and challenges upset our status quo.
They force change.
We must think differently, embrace new ideas and consider options for the first time.
This is called learning.