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Vulnerability is not a weakness.
Nor is asking for help.
In fact, seduction employs vulnerability to excellent effect.
Having a man do things for you encourages him to feel needed, wanted and useful.
You value him.
This is not a ploy for there is nothing wrong with letting a man do things that you feel are difficult such as lifting heavy objects.
Why strain yourself in order to compete with him?